Feed meals and is unfavorable to physical and psychological development to the children above the average age for marriage

Feed meals and is unfavorable to physical and psychological development to the children above the average age for marriage
From biological angle to see 1 year old child begin, wish eagerly, take food independently, this whether mankind look for animal instinct of food too, will use crying to express hungrily, look for the food with mouth like the baby, will suck happily by holding mother's breast or feeding bottle in hands a bit if it is bigger. With child's growth, has reached over 1, the diet amount is increasing constantly, the adaptive capacity to all kinds of food has been strengthened gradually, has chewed the function to set up progressively, there is one's own ability to see things in their true light on color, smell and taste of the food, child begins to have aspiration that is eaten independently at this moment. At this stage, the child becomes the subject eaten progressively, parents' function should be changed from leading factor into auxiliary function, through encouraging and assisting children to take food, let children feel the happiness eaten, enjoy the delicious food of the food with adult. If parents still insist on feeding meals to children, certainly will bring the injury at various degrees to child.



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, damage and chew the function

Because parents feed meals, often cause children to gobble up while taking food and can't fully chew the food, make normal development, muscle of face of tooth do exercises, influence, one that is to tooth firm preventing from decayed tooth,etc., playing bad role, even all have influence of a certain degree on the child's future's face.


2
, influence digests and assimilates the function

It is insufficient to chew the food, it is difficult to digest and absorb and utilize to swallow the stomach.


3
, the psychological over-stress or role is not clear

In the course of feeding the meal, various behaviors and varied behavior of parents', bring the earth's core at various degrees to child and pay attention to pressure and injury. If some parents because in a hurry, feed meal, urges children to eat quickly, will make children feel that it is a kind of burden to have a meal as time passes, think that there is not fun at all to eat. Resistance attitudes held, apocleisis, particular about food habit to having a meal of a lot of children, take shape like this. Other parents, while feeding meals to children, often play with it while feeding meals, a meal will be often fed for more than an hour. It is no doubt good to regard as child's mood like this, but the child does not understand that is having a meal or playing games, the role is not clear. Such as forming the bad habit, once there is no game to follow, certainly the meal can not be eaten. If this kind of behavior continues, will lead to the fact the child is absent minded, influence study and work in the future. Other parents are while feeding meals, in order to let children have some more, promise to give children various things while feeding. It is used to take shape like thising, the child may think, can obtain some interests through having a meal.


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, the setting-up influencing child's movements to be balanced

Studying according to the expert, Chinese are clever to use chopsticks as the tool eaten and have something to do with us for a long time. The child takes food independently, finish one and eat movements, need mutual coordination of the hand, mouth, eyes to cooperate, such as using the chopsticks, movements are more meticulous, coordinate with balanced ability stronger. If still need parents to feed meals by five or six years old, this pair of children's movements are balanced and coordinated, even have bad influence on intelligence capital.


5
, the spoon-feed feeds and exchanges and causes the fat

Feed meal, might rest the child's stomach loud while being excessive, cause children to be fat. One is blameless to feed meals as parents' care to one's own child, but if care about excessively, often turn out contrary to one's wishes, bring the unnecessary injury to child, this is that every parents are unwilling to see. Parents should let the child know, the subject of having a meal is child, instead of parents, it is the need that oneself grows to have a meal, it is not to have a meal for parents.

In sum, parents should encourage the behavior that children have a meal, even if the child is while just beginning to take food alone, the situation of the unrestrained food appears, making the clothes dirty etc. refuses to blame. The course is presenting some bad behaviors to have a meal to find children, parents will never yield to, it is very important that this pair forms child's good eating habit progressively.
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