Give children a space of independent development

Give children a space of independent development
This is a true thing: A university student of one famous university in our country, after being admitted to the scholarship going abroad to study, but insane because of being anxious and excessive. Originally, he was the only son in the family, loved while as a child, the clothing came to stretch out one's hand, opened one's mouth, even been educated in the university, parents will go to the school to arrange life for him every week, think of going abroad to go to school alone, nobody will look after, he does not know what life oneself will, even too anxious and not normal. Later, this university student's parents said a sentence of thought-provoking words to reporters: "We love him wholeheartedly, thinks about him, who knows but hurt him in everything. " Whenever remember here piece from " Love " And tragedy that lead to, I can't help, associate it with, how many children does it have like this university student in today, live in parents and teacher are kind " Love " China? How many children does it have, in the near future, can recur the similar tragedy too? It is the people's natural instincts to love children, that university student's parents love children not to have a bit fault. It is that they love the child's way to be too blind and irrational by mistake, just love wholeheartedly, but neglected child's future development with living independently, has not offered the space of independent development to child, thus enable children after being used to passive reliance, while needing to face the new challenge alone, at a loss as to what to do. So, every parents and teacher loving the child deeply, must be based on the future development of the child, while loving the child, should keep reason, every of parents and teacher should fully realize, the child of today, is a citizen of the future society, they always want to leave kind love and care of parents, teacher finally, move towards living in the road independently. The quality of their future life, the key lies in possessing the required basic quality of society and future life in the future. So, parents and teacher must keep a space of independent development for the child while loving the child, make child possess, meet society and basic quality of life in the future, such love real love and rational love. The final goal of overall, sound development of realizing individuals, the key lies in giving full play to children's subjective initiative, trained the ability that children met and developed voluntarily while as a child. This understanding, spare no effort to " love " as to every one The child and creating for the child " Happy" Parents but not speak with teacher,getting more important particularly. So, every of parents and teacher are loving children and creating " happy childhood " for the child When, should pay attention to fullying realize and giving play to the entity and independence of the child, the ability of training children to develop and meet voluntarily, this requires parents and teacher to accomplish: 1. Fully respect children, regard children as one and have independence, have oneself inherent requirement and individual of the development potentiality, it is not merely attached objects or simple recipients of parents and teacher. 2.Offer to children and create the chance consciously, let children do some things in power independently, without everything takes on what ought to be done by others. This can bring about an advance in children's freedom to a certain extent. 3.Lead and educate children, train the ability that children meet and develop voluntarily in daily life consciously. For instance, educate the appropriate setback to children, let children solve the problem that some had certain difficulty independently, utilize actual life to teach children some essential solving problem knowledge, method and skills etc.. 4.Establish the foundation to be developed continuously for children. Children's quality of the development in the future, have something to do with the potentiality that children have sustainable development to a great extent, and should achieve the goal of developing continuously, must exploit the potentialities of and train children to further developing from little attention and quality. So, parents and teacher should train various development capacity of children's while as a child and further develop psychological quality needed, let the intersection of children and the intersection of development and some quality that benefit from all the life, but not merely children learn some knowledge. In a word, every of parents and teacher must be based on the future while loving children, think about child's development and happiness in all one's life in the future, should leave children a space of independent development, make the child adapt to society and future life in future voluntarily progressively. Certainly, it is not to say to allow child's independent development parents and teacher can let to the child go unchecked, just the opposite, only suitable education is combined with child's sufficient entity, children will win maximum sound development. Select from K12 education network and is selected from " preschool education "

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