The ones that give men a little soul depths are touched

The ones that give men a little soul depths are touched
If you ask a Chinese man, what kind of man can attract the woman's eyeball in 21st century most? They are sure to answer with perfect assurance: Famous, have the right, rich man. In the mind of man, famous, right, money these mark successful thing in life, you could create good material conditions for woman, make women get rid of the threat living in hunger and cold, let what they got for a long time be happy, in the face of such a man, the woman does not go after like a flock of ducks, only the nerve has gone out of order. However, life has told us another answer. " hygiene newspapers of masses " are reported: An investigation reveals recently: The standard of choosing spouse of the girl in Beijing, the first is a man in Shanghai, the second is an American-European man. These girls generally acknowledge the man of Shanghai is lovely everywhere: Speak the mandarin, wear a pair of Xiucai's glasses, busy outside in it is a check apron, busy, cook and cook; Send child to school in the morning, meet children and go home in the evening, does not dare to stay in bed on weekend morning, go to the food market to bargain first, then the family education of practising the musical instrument carrying the daughter on the back; Free once in a while, lead children on one hand, have the beloved wife on the other hand, go to wife's mother's her parent's home together. Noble the intersection of Shanghai and man, even manager, factory director, boss, guard a pass or checkpoint, very arrogant in the intersection of unit and first husband, coming back home, one was - --The eldest of the little child, wife the second child, one's own third. The man in Shanghai is finally the sample, I am not very clear, what I am interested in is the value orientation that contemporary women embody in the course of choosing spouse, that is: Whether they show consideration for the man oneself, are sense of duty is seen more heavily than any other things. It should even be like this carefully to think. A man becomes the writer, painter, performer, has some reputations, his job behavior is just meaningful to its serivce object; The man has obtained power, has become the manager, factory director, chief, mayor, his is imposing just to the person who is led; The man is rich, can make the loved person dissipated and luxurious and making a sightseeing tour, but the intersection of money and he this might take away alone at any time too. To woman, " material benefit " the most Still for man vs. oneself and this house what a kind of attitudes embraced. One man have to one's own heart that treasure of remaining half, even if poor a bit (the intersection of person who take and full meal, the intersection of person who dress and garment too certainly affording the apartment) , silly some (will not establish unprincipled connection to refer in particular to here) , a bit more cumbersome (can not be romantic) Also have no relations. Because a man who really there is sense of duty, poorer, sillier, more cumbersome, also unwilling hurt and wronged one's own wife. However, a sad one is now quite a lot of men of this society ignore the woman's emotion to thirst for. We can see such a lens frequently: The woman is busy with a face streaming with sweat in the kitchen, but the man cheers in front of the television for the English football team; Woman wash clothes at home, shine cotton-wadded quilt also, man plan for Iraq how about reply U.S.A. in staircase, how to attack terrorism to worry about Annan; The left hand is a child that the woman goes out, the right hand is a food basket, the left hand is a mobile phone that the man goes outside, the right hand is the treasure in the palm The man always has such a understanding: I am a host, will make money, should be waited upon by the woman naturally; Besides, a many one is the man presidents, man Premiers in the world, and the woman becomes a minister, provincial governor, but be fried by the body of coal to fry, my future is greater than hers! The man has forgotten some: The woman is a kind of emotion animal, they want what someone dote on innately. The media that men and women combine is the love, the soil that the love needs sprouting, this kind of soil is that each other cares about, shows consideration for, care, I wish the signal that those bold girls in Beijing sent out, could feel the touching of a little soul depths of good man for oneself.

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