Correct the bad habit that the child makes trouble wilfully

Correct the bad habit that the child makes trouble wilfully
Child make trouble wilfully, make the intersection of parents and very troublesome the intersection of first and not obedient behavior. This can be nowadays said to be one kind of ubiquitous phenomena in the social only-child too. It is actually a kind of behavior that children lack self-control to make trouble wilfully. Self-control means controlling oneself, controlling one's own action, and regulate one's own behavioral ability consciously, it is shown as and has already been good at impelling oneself to finish the task that should be finished, good at controlling one's own bad behavior again. Grow up gradually at child, strong-minded after beginning in he himself, let's reduce parents gradually and they on the body at the time of contact, they will bring people's attention in way of making trouble wilfully etc.. So long as parents handle the relation with child well, do not meet their requirement blindly, the society in right time says "no ", there is not the situation that the child makes trouble wilfully again.


The child's self-control was mainly trained by the day after tomorrow's education. The reason why the only-child makes trouble wilfully is mainly caused by the parents' improper educational way. The child will watch the mood and guess the thoughts when nearly growing, the watcher is initial unconditionally compromise is the initial reason causing children to make trouble wilfully; Spoil and is partial to encouraging the bluster that the child makes trouble wilfully even more. Once the bad habit of making trouble wilfully is formed, the child, with the hope on behavior of it is very difficult to control one's own ^ing, often what done what is wanted to do, this can influence child's development in the future seriously. How could parents correct the bad habit that children make trouble wilfully?


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, the bad behavior of preventing the child firmly

Parents can't always connive at the child, in this way the child will have no sense of achievement. Refuse children appropriately, when will make the child learn to get along with people, should state the reasons, can't do at will. Once the child spoilt enters the society, it is certain to feel that incompatible with others, they will find nobody would like and get along by oneself. If parents insist on always requiring, the child can learn to control oneself, restrain oneself gradually.


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, help child appraise oneself correctly

Parents must insist on argueing while correcting the bad habit that the child makes trouble wilfully, should tell child can't do it in this way, how make, as well as let him know why be unable to do it in this way, set up a set of effectual, persevering codes of conduct for the child, comment on, judge one's own behavioral basis as the child, so as to restrain one's own behavior. Only let the child understand the meaning of the code of conduct, he will observe and carry out convincingly, and go to control one's own not standardized behavior consciously. Parents' simple reprimanding can not play a role in really educating the child with the corporal punishment.


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, the material conditions which supply the child should be appropriate

Abundant material conditions are apt to make children pick and choose. The child with good condition of the family is often not obedient, but the condition is bad and very sensible. The material conditions to the child are deprived appropriately, will help to correct the bad habit that the child makes trouble wilfully. Give what eat anything, if unwilling to eat, go hungry right away eat; The toy that shouldn't be bought can't be bought, why the child makes a noise not to promise either. Parents should realize, the child's habit was trained while as a child, should adhere to principles on the minor matter too, can't compromise.


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, making trouble wilfully to ignore to the child

Under generally it happens that in a certain need that parents are unsatisfied with him in the making trouble wilfully of the childing, though parents have told child the great reason of pushing away, the child closes one's ears to at all, parents can take the method to ignore to the child at this moment. Let the child cry and scream heartily, mustn't compromise. After a while, the child will feel that it is too basic to solve any problem to do it in this way by oneself, so will stop. If parents insist on doing it in this way all the time, the child will give up the bad habit of making trouble wilfully gradually.


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, the model that establishes well for the child

The child is especially good at imitating, it is extremely easy for mood to be infected. So, parents can make use of good child's image in life, in the TV and in the story to educate children, fully give play to the role of model. Let the child understand sensible child makes people better, and the child making trouble wilfully is horrible, make the child's behavior develop towards good respect.


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, help children to control own mood

Some children made trouble wilfully because mood development caused imperfectly. The nerve fibre myelin of child's brain central nervous system has not been complete yet, shown as excited relatively easy generalization, excitement is stronger than inhibition, react the inaccuracy, so smaller stimulus of the external world is extremely apt to cause children's excitement and difficult to control oneself. As to such a child, can improve their sensory system by training in psychology, make their mood development consert with development of psychological quality.
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