Age for marriage and couple and shutting

Age for marriage and couple and shutting
It is more old and most suitable for men and women to get married, which kind can be regarded as rational, every kind very reasonable, our country has always had different statements, different criterion. Classical masterpiece " the Water Margin " has one of Shi Nai'an's prefaces, among them say: "And not married on the 30th of life, should not marry even more; The intersection of 40 and bodyguard, answer bodyguard Why the intersection of speech and it, spend disobey it, thing easy to the limit even. " He limits the playing of man's age for marriage at 30 years old. Gold is holy sighs and says this was in the last years of Ming Dynasty, it was exactly Neo-Confucianism when the family was rampant without restraint at that time, one's marriage is not for one's own happiness, but because " there is three unfilially, as greatly after not having " ,In order to have an inheritor, settle parents' wish. According to the record of ancient book " Zhou Li " and " Book of Rites ": "Man 30 is married, woman 20 is married. " The life talking to Confucius " Able to establish one's career at thirty " Just about equal. This is the teaching of Confucius more than 2,000 years ago, it is totally different to marry too early with the opinion of later age. Have at that time" The population theory " ,etc. statement,but this the regulations of kinds of age for marriage, be lasted meaninged of population control. The young people of today hear looks of men and women's age for marriage makes a fuss with ten years' difference, especially young woman, listen to the other side turn around, ignore large 10 year than oneself. And many adults think most suitable that age is differed by for three or four years old between couple. This kind of social conduct wonders when to take shape. In fact, say, the man is 30 years old, in the prime time of his life too from physiology. By the look of social effect, the man is 10 years older than the woman, also may well be just about equal. Han Feizi has said in his work: "Annual 50 husbands have but not solved it lustfully, annual 30 women but the beauty is declined sad. The body sees that it is lowpriced to dredge with beautiful woman's husband with lustful thing. " He warn woman whether don't with evening the husband's age up by oneself, otherwise reach older, may go wrong between couple. Poet Song Mei YaoChen has a poem to say too: "The woman is not 40, before the appearance has already been changed; The man has been already 50, it is since partial that craving are firm. " The man abandons greedily old newly, should no doubt criticize by the look of social morals, but by the look of people's physiological condition, how to say? " in charge of the intersection of awl and page " quote ancient the intersection of Greek and the intersection of philosopher and what of Aristotle, say the women's 18 marries, man 37 takes a wife, can be old and feeble at the same time in the future. French writer de Balzac points out too old and feeble one of men and women differs by about 15 years old. The China and Western view on age for marriage is exactly the same. In our times, the wind accepting the plastic surgery holds big. The persons who accept the plastic surgery are mostly women, the married one is not small number. This is close and correlated with with men and women's age for marriage, can really study too.

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