The child who lacks father love is apt to suffer from network addiction " work as the mother and work as the father again " It is impractical

The child who lacks father love is apt to suffer from network addiction " work as the mother and work as the father again " It is impractical
Many parents are troublesome because the child indulge in the network. The expert points out, father has insufficient or lacks function, it is one of the important reasons causing teenagers to indulge in the network.
" work as the mother and also work as the father " It is impractical
Psychological consultation teacher Liu ShuQing in the country second introduces, the situation that the father love is insufficient is very general at present. Because should fight outside, only a few men can reserve enough time and accompany the child, mother often " Work as the mother also works as the father " . But the role acted is not replaceable in parents are in the child grow up. It is representatives' heroic complex that a lot of children have to look for men in the network game. If father can find time, guide child more, child too would not seek the intersection of hero and complex in here. Moreover, women lean towards perceptually, men lean towards reason, the child needs to study self-control from father, encourage oneself. Father's function is lacked, the child lacks the ability of automatic control, it is apt to suffer from network addiction.
It is been that father wants a good model
The expert points out, parents are the child's models. Besides finding time to accompany the child more, father should set an example, can't indulge in the network, also tell children why oneself use correctly and treat the network. You had better make the rule with child, observe such as surf time and with child. In addition, father had better accompany the child to do the outdoor sports more, such as playing ball, climbing, let children transfer attention to other things, but not indulge in the network. (Xia Wen)
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