Talking freely about mother realizes eight major mistaken ideas

Talking freely about mother realizes eight major mistaken ideas
When first Mother's Day in the new century comes, mother of university of traffic of East China educates chief of institute Wang Donghua to be interviewed by reporter, talk freely about eight major mistaken ideas which mother realizes at present. Wang Donghua famous the intersection of mother and education expert, mother of him educational monograph " find mother " and " whether we educate child like this " generally pay close attention to by societies publish, and is selected as the All-China Women's Federation " The century reading activity of the parents " Recommend the booklist to national parents. The first leading mistaken idea: Reduce weight - -Leave the hidden danger Wang Donghua to point out, mother of the western countries is well-above the energy that the body needs from the energy that is obtained in the food healthily to children, therefore have to reduce weight; But most people in Chinese mother do not need to reduce weight. He says, a lot of women both fall into the mistaken idea of reducing weight now, in " weight-reducing sports " China has got lost. If Chinese mother become in delicate health like Lin Daiyu, has not merely damaged one's own health, have left the hidden danger for the child's health in the future even more. He thinks, the good health and fitness is pregnant with the healthy parent, there is only healthy mother, the foetus could be healthy. So, join in nationwide fitness programs, it is Chinese mother's best choice. The second leading mistaken idea: Sexual liberation - -Pregnant with retarded and odd-shaped Wang Donghua to point out, after asceticism finishes, we welcome an individual character liberation climax sadly. Accompanied by the disorder of the sexual relations, various venereal diseases, AIDS, sterility,etc. are spread as germ. Such parent will only be pregnant with a large number of retarded children and teratogenesis. Wang Donghua thinks, women's chastity is not the commitments to man, but the responsibility to the child, it is a lofty, solemn vow that is made in the future in the face of the mankind. The third leading mistaken idea: Artificial abortion - -The child's bodily injury Wang Donghua thinks to the future, has an abortion and is different from the natural health to excrete definitely, is healthy devotion and are consumed, it is all the bodily injury to the future child to have an abortion each time to all have an abortion each time. Today, we should not only propagate contraception knowledge, should propagate the danger of having an abortion even more. That kind should abandon firmly as method that practise contraception having an abortion. Wang Donghua says, it is not only to mother's damage to have an abortion, but also to the child's damage born yet. No longer pregnant behind some women operations, just go out of and miscarry the room, enter the infertile clinic again, how can the child given birth to like this keep strong and healthy? The fourth leading mistaken idea: Refuse to feed - -Hurt children as well as injure mother Wang Donghua to think, mother has fed and not merely provided the best physiological article for baby, and provided the best nourishment for the mind for child. To it feeds to be not only extremely important to child breast milk, to mother being but also extremely important. It is soft-land of recovery of physical efficiency after mother gives a birth to nurse. He say people know from the intersection of child and healthy angle this breast milk it feeds to be overall only now, mother absolutely second to the child to physiological demand that breast milk feed. On spirit, mother has just set up deep emotion with the child by nursing. The fifth leading mistaken idea: Become literate - -Wang Donghua points out that the bad educational method has wasted the child's golden years, become literate and educate and should be undertaken by mother initially. But lack mother to know the effective method to teach beginners to the child now, have wasted the golden years of mouth education and written language mutual promotion of the child 0 years old to 6 years old. Wang Donghua thinks, a lot of mother teaches children how to become literate and but mostly can't let children reach a standard smoothly, trace it to its cause, it is it that does not understand that educate way, method in which the infant becomes literate. It is still not so good as not teaching to teach like this. The sixth leading mistaken idea: Foster - -Cause " one's own back mother's phenomenon " Wang Donghua points out, " mother's phenomenon after being one's own " Still appear in a lot of families, on one hand mother is more and more " fierce " ,On one hand child " Not obedient " ,The result has caused the great wound to the mother and son both sides. Wang Donghua thinks, loses the undertaking, can resume; And lost children and lost all. No doubt can't have no money in life, without undertaking, but let alone there are not children. " pay the bill without giving the emotion " Treat on child,there are only " whether pay the bill without to emotion " on that bring Repayment. The seventh leading mistaken idea: Skip a grade - -It is apt to cause the social life retarded child Wang Donghua to point out, if skip a grade and lack the exercise of social ability at the same time, the child is very apt to become the retarded child in social life, so it is not the best choice of training the superstrong children of intelligence to skip a grade. Wang Donghua thinks, if can not establish good cooperation relation with others, it can't be brought into play either that intelligence is more well. So, we must treat and skip a grade cautiously. If can only the two select, would rather die talent at a intelligence, also save a social development and coordinate the happy person. The eighth leading mistaken idea: Divorced - -Influence the child Wang Donghua in all one's life to point out, as parents abandon the chains of marriage bravely, justice be returned to to be had it take care of it stake everything on a single throw some even at the time of road to set foot on new life, as to the child, but grieved, will influence the child's life. Wang Donghua thinks, the marriage, must let this third party of the child participate. Select from the health network of three nine-day periods after the winter solstice

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