Lacking parents loves children for exchanging development and lacking proper care It is the most obvious that 18 behave in month

Lacking parents loves children for exchanging development and lacking proper care It is the most obvious that 18 behave in month
"My child is 10 months for a year old, the temper is unbending, the thing wanted must be got. How to make her obedient? " "My child is a girl, live with the grandmother for a long time, very timid, how to train her courage? " A great deal of child-bearing questions are perplexing young Papa and Mama. November 7, teacher, psychological consultation of country, authorize group leader of Guangdong Province expert panel Li XingMin Professor, come the intersection of Foshan and the intersection of city and healthcare hospital for women children, instruct the child-bearing labyrinth for the parents of fathers of people, mothers of people for the beginning.
Professor Li points out, if lack parents' love, the infant will present the emotion and lack the development obstacle, will behave at 18 months this about symptom particularly obviously. The baby who suffers from this kind of obstacle, though the diet provided for them is sufficient, also without other diseases, but the health becomes thin, the behavior shrinks back, the emotion is indifferent, can't find the reason of the organism.
So, parents should offer children enough care, enable the infant's psychology to be developed in a healthy way.
Parents may try to promote infant's psychology to develop in a healthy way by these method, for example provide for child and try various games, go through chances of different incident; Introduce a toy or a thing to children with the language that the child can understand; Parents do some thing the child, do very beautifully on purpose, let the child look by oneself, and should do repeatedly; Tell child celebrity's scholar's stories in childhood more; Take child to field, museum, is close to the nature, visit various scientific and technological and cultural and educational exhibitions.
8 methods train the good behavior
As the saying goes three years old is fixed all the life, trained the good behavioral habit to already become young parents' common understanding while as a child. Professor Li has offered the method of infant's good habit of 8 kinds of cultivation to parents: Care and sensitivity, strict enforcement of orders and prohibitions, strengthening, slackening, treats coldly, guides and suspension.
Among them, it is all through the progressive method to strengthen and slacken, make the good habit consolidated, the bad habit correct. So-called " strengthening " ,With rewarding the meaning closely, do a thing when the infant is in a certain situation, if obtained the satisfactory result, while meeting the same situation next time, the possibility to do a good job of this increases. Using " Strengthening " At the time of the means, should pay attention to rewarding and must follow the good behavior, the longer the interval is, the worse the result is; While carrying on reward, should praise children's good behavior; Used and strengthened continuously in initial stage of training, the behavior adopted the interval to strengthen after stabilizing; Unanimous, fair and appropriate before and after the standard of the intensification.
Weaken just opposite, cry and scream as child unwilling to sleep or not unwilling have a meal worried, can ignore willfully, react to it, it is long, the child's bad habit can be corrected. (Chen YuFeng Zhang XiaoHui)
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