Give me once to say good-bye to single chance! is single

Give me once to say good-bye to single chance! is single

Standard of choosing spouse can't " Demand perfection "
"The stage that I would not go so far as to reduce to advertising for a life partner? " Hear, have single too impatient with advertise for a life partner, draw a clear line of demarcation personal value here even in order to show oneself clan often. Many adult singles
Has seemed to take great pains to guard a secret to this all the time, regard advertising for a life partner as and lose face, especially some women would rather not be married all the life, will not pluck up one's courage and step out this step either. So, in the place of matchmakers, the stranger advertises for a life partner the proportion is far higher than natives, men exceed women.
The purpose to advertise for a life partner is for expanding the friend-making chance, if it is all money to open and close mouths, 30 year old stand fast at 20 that year such as year old still " Can go to the hall, play the kitchen, endowed with both beauty and talent " Choose spouse standard,naturally will lose a lot of marriage chance,where will it be meaning that be advertised for a life partner?
Go to blindly date candidly naturally
Such traditional acquaintance way of blindlying date radiated vigor again in new era. The greatest advantage is to blindly date, both sides are very clear what is done by oneself, guarantee to exchange effectively; Blindly date since introduced by others, although it is impossible to know the background, know a bit sort of, the credit threshold has already been improved artificially, the party sets up defences degree can reduce a bit. If the result of blindlying date is less than satisfactory each time, you should make good preparations for fighting repeatedly after suffering repeated defeats.
Someone can't make the restrained form at once when liking to act as a go-between for you, wave and say " The ones that introduce are sure to be not so good as meeting by chance " ," I am not worried yet " ,In the face of others' enthusiastic introduction, should give up worry, remove the burden, accept candidly naturally. And in a situation that the love does not come even after stalling for a long time, you should put down the figure, mobilize relatives and friends voluntarily, ask them to look for the marriage partner for you.
Not crazy about not to refuse love online either
Certain someone says to you that does not believe the love fairy tale in love online, someone proposes " seeing the light and dying " you too Sincere advice,it is to but not have a lot of young people look for by love one after another on network, QQ blindlies date, dates with the city Do not miss a gleam of chance. If must be through recommending solving the marriage problem, it is the simplest way that the network blindlies date, many young people work nervous, have no time through meet, talk, meet, talk again and then these way consume time and fall in love, the networks needn't meet while blindlying date, can be through " chatting away on any conceivable topic " on the net first . Confirm that it is essential to meet, efficiency is improved greatly. The ones that have avoided meeting stranger are awkward, the exchange on net is relaxed by people too, other this way is more economic. As to love online, our attitude is neither crazy about, nor refusing, this only have channel that a kind of understanding contacts, the words having chance with, first line of one thousand li of the happy fate which brings lovers together is led.
Participate in the party and hand in to friends and know
"Comparatively speaking, friendship ties that is specially held for single clan is still fewer, there are few people who we made at ordinary times, want to make friends and does not know where to go to look for. " Above the average age for marriage the intersection of young man and Li feel very much helpless first.
A lot of young people become " The poor household of the love " ,Mainly in that the life circle is narrow, it is difficult to touch the appropriate marriage target. Many units do not organize in Quanzhou of Xiamen regularly to direct against the white collar union, put up a good platform making friends freely for the young friend. Can also participate in appropriately while similar to the single club where the trade company launches, single partying, the key lies in whether the way of the activity is novel, attractive.
The real liberator is oneself
Some " fall singly " Person go through by failure of love,it is last psychology not to have, a bundle of negatives to think oneself, all nobody of love in this life, some adult singles think that there is market in the marriage oneself, close the heart, no longer open to the opposite sex easily, some shoulder the heavy burden, then choose to give up simply, so lonely all one's life. In fact, on choosing spouse, real " liberator " It is oneself, should participate in all kinds of social activities voluntarily, expand it communication, put down worry, represent the best side, create the chance for oneself, give others a chance too.


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