Prevent parents from strangling the child's _'s marriage psychology of natural instincts closely

Prevent parents from strangling the child's _'s marriage psychology of natural instincts closely
If parents can protect meticulously, educate patiently, for it scientifically " Apply fertilizer to water " ," weed and kill worms " ,Will demonstrate vitality; If it is improper to protect, will make it wrecked, even be strangled.




Children's natural instincts are easy to learn to ask, all feel fresh interesting to the things around, have it to cloud electric trials and hardship, the sun and the moon and the stars, to marine organism, river mountains and rivers, they all the thing wants to know and think parents know everything. Then from sociable one, no matter parents are busy and free, carry some twining strangely and eccentrically or is seemed at all on the issue not worth mentioning by parents, parents must adopt a correct attitude towards these questions that the child put forward, don't regard as unimportant, even shouldn't propose the unidentified problem that even adult says not to clean the street of this sometimes in criticism. The curiosity easy natural instincts that ask one the intersection of respect and the intersection of knowledge and ldquo of desire after all in fact; Budlet rdquo; ,And this budlet is very tender and lovely and fragile.

Making friends with child, parents and child establish harmonious, harmonious kindred relation and friends, make children dare to open the heart wide, be unrestrained, show the inner world in front of you keeping at all, then the intersection of parents and ability come, spy upon the intersection of child and secret of heart through expression, expression in one's eyes, posture, movement of child really, it is known what he thinks, what are done and why primary task of thinking like this, doing like this, parents is the creativity of training the child constantly.

By praising the curiosity of arousing the child

In the course of educating the child, should often offer the chance to succeed to child or create. For example propose some simple topics and let the child think, arrange some activities in power to let children operate, make children taste the successful happiness from it.

Become the child's model

People have often said since ancient times the child is a mirror of the parents', every word and action, every gesture to parents will imitate consciously or unconsciously, so parents should train the child's curiosity, must make the sample first by oneself, this is a shortcut of educating the child.

Introduce the child in the world of the book

The books are another important window where the child knows, understands the world, parents should choose to accord with the book of child's interest hobby while leading children to know the world through this window, in order to train child's interest in books. In this course, parents can't act with undue haste, otherwise can only cause child's disgust to the books.

Broaden child's outlook

Stimulate curiosity, consider and begin with surprisedly, the plan leads the child to take a walk more, see more, experience more changeable natural sceneries intentionally, the multicoloured work of art, complicated and confusing social life. Not only can meet the child's curiosity like this but also can stimulate the child's curiosity.
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