The psychological expert of spirit: Walk out and " commit suicide and intervene " All sorts of mistaken idea

The psychological expert of spirit: Walk out and " commit suicide and intervene " All sorts of mistaken idea
Www.xinhuanet.com Guangzhou 9 Special despatch of the 9th of moon (reporter Xiao SiSi) It is that " the world prevents from committing suicide on day " on September 10 ,World prevent from, leave this year on association world prevent from, it commits suicide themes that sun makes to be " no matter who, no matter where it is: The whole world prevents from committing suicide hand in hand " .
Zhongshan University attach to third hospital spiritual the intersection of psychology dept. and sweet to take the picture space, say doctor in charge: "Commit suicide and intervene once deal with improperly, all that has been achieved has come to nothing for the efforts that would be probably once enabled, what is more, push hands in the backstage that will have no intention of becoming ' suicidal overbearing tide '. " The space of sweet license has enumerated the common mistaken idea of committing suicide to intervene:
One of the mistaken ideas is " ignoring, let the best opportunity intervened be lost by mistake " . The space of sweet license is said: "Some old persons are tormented by the illness all the year round, belong to the key crowd committing suicide to intervene. And before implementing the suicide, may reveal the thought committing suicide many times. Reveal, commit suicide thought is to want, die really, to a kind of signal of seeking survival on household send out to family repeatedly. Can if household turn a blind eye to to this, even reach explaining still there was not vigilance at that time in the funeral affairs, will lose the good opportunity intervened by mistake, will lead to the tragedy finally. "
The fine start and poor finish that the second of mistaken idea is ", make intervene to fall short of success for lack of final effort " . The space of sweet license is said: "Committing suicide divides many kinds according to the reason, because the impulse suicide that the interpersonal conflict causes for the moment, can obtain the long-term result when intervening through a short time. And some commit suicide and is controlled and produced directly by psychosis symptom, so long as spiritual symptom has not got effective control, the risk of committing suicide is unable to remove. Temporary spirit take a favorable turn and reveal the smile, nothing but one kind of false appearances. This kind of false appearance can not cheat a doctor, but can hoodwink family. Family relax vigilance unintentionally, thus make originally prompt, effective intervention take action and make the fine start and poor finish, fall short of success for lack of final effort finally. "
The third of mistaken idea is that " believes amateur strength excessively, it is all in vain to cause" . The space of sweet license thinks, to the severe depression patient who has strong suicidal thought, even specialized personnel, commit suicide and intervene and feel headache to it. Because in terms of present technological means, there has not been any kind of method to dispel the patient's suicidal thought immediately. The present common method is, through heavy dose of calm hypnotic, let the patient sleep for several days, make it unable to implement the suicide, the result arises to race against time for antidepressants. And a common one is that the family over-evaluate one's own intervention ability, it is blind and self-confident sometimes to amateur strength, that was gained can only be a tragedy.
The fourth of mistaken idea is " Discuss the principle in front of the life " . The space of sweet license is said: "Bargain with others in a manner to commit suicide and threaten, when such a negotiation happens unfortunately, party of negotiation, it must guard against with ' principle can't give ining ' as negotiating by bottom lining, refuse negotiating the intersection of condition and one port that another partying putting forward, even if how reasonably is condition. The correct method is, try every means to stabilize the other side's mood, even can't all meet the other side's requirement, let the other side see the hope at least. If really have no way, can agree to the requirement temporarily, because such an agreement is invalid legally, after the danger is removed, and then seek the solution. Frequently, menaces often arouse the attention from society to come in extreme way to commit suicide, do not really want to die. So, the meddlers of this kind of crisis need to clarify the other side's real intention, can do a job with skill and ease while negotiating. "
The space of sweet license is said: "The measure of committing suicide and intervening is numerous, no matter which kind of form, any means, should all regard rescuing people the final purpose and helping people to save oneself as. If has deviated from such an ultimate purpose, then must make a self-criticism such a intervening measure is apt in time, whether sustainable. "
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