Seven key elements of gentility

Seven key elements of gentility
The gentility is, well-mannered, treat people modest and amiable, the dress is proper, the style of conversation is graceful, one's own training, knowledge is erudite, experienced and knowledgeable, benevolent, respecting the old and loving the young, respect women, without bad hobby, the interpersonal relationships are good. In order to win women's good opinion, and special exercise remedies oneself insufficiently.
Seven main points of man's gentility: The man is well-mannered can often display the morals demeanour of the man of civilized society, also can find out a man's schooling. It is unable to grasp the key points or main ideas because some men get along with the girl friend, parted on bad term finally. In fact, the man's poise not only should display with the girl friend's contacts, should display on the attitude toward lady in daily life.(1)You should nod and greet to familiar ladies met slightly first. If some lady is coming up to you, please remember, if she stretches out hands voluntarily, you could shake hands with she.(2)When the public place meet the familiar lady accidentally to say hello each other, needn't shake hands, but must take hands out from the pocket, take the cigarette from mouth down, if want to stop chewing eating, certainly, lady too. It is disgrace that the man lets ladies stop the step on the street at will, even the acquaintance. If being in a hurry can certainly make an exception.(3)If you and girl walk in the street and run into acquaintances, you can not air the girl to talk with acquaintance no end aside. You can introduce the acquaintance to the girl, but if you must talk about everything with acquaintance and say clearly in a few words, can be in order to make an appointment to see or hit the telephone communication separately.(4)If one lady takes the car that you drove, you must open the door and let lady sit on the co-pilot's seat first, you take to one's own position again. When lady gets off, you will get off first, will open the door for lady. The method to visit the body in the car and open the door is unsightly. Certainly, can't let ladies take out the luggage and articles either.(5)While meeting with the familiar lady in the coffee house or hotel, should raise oneself slightly from the seat in order to show and welcome slightly. If lady walks close to you, should stand up and talk with it.(6)Your girl friend will go to the bathroom slightly the thing is put in order on the party, you can send her to the hall, but should make a detour carefully, so as not to bother the person dancing.(7)After the party, if have ready conditions to want to drive one's own car or take a taxi to send girl friend home, don't forget to thank the girl friend for accepting that invites to participate in the party. Usually see girl friend walking close to the floor door or door. More courteous method is, come out from the car, send the girl friend to her home gate.(8)Should pay attention to one's own image while associating with othersThe gentility is the public of the western countries, especially the basic etiquette norm which the male masses in Britain advocate. Pay attention to one's own appearance bearing in the public associate through requiring, the graceful bearing is graceful, can make well-mannered and bringing up richly impression.
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